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- LIVING, Page 56COVER STORYProceeding With Caution
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- The twentysomething generation is balking at work, marriage and
- baby-boomer values. Why are today's young adults so skeptical?
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- By DAVID M. GROSS and SOPHFRONIA SCOTT -- With reporting by Dan
- Cray/Los Angeles, Tom Curry/Atlanta and William
- McWhirter/Chicago
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- They have trouble making decisions. They would rather hike
- in the Himalayas than climb a corporate ladder. They have few
- heroes, no anthems, no style to call their own. They crave
- entertainment, but their attention span is as short as one zap
- of a TV dial. They hate yuppies, hippies and druggies. They
- postpone marriage because they dread divorce. They sneer at
- Range Rovers, Rolexes and red suspenders. What they hold dear
- are family life, local activism, national parks, penny loafers
- and mountain bikes. They possess only a hazy sense of their own
- identity but a monumental preoccupation with all the problems
- the preceding generation will leave for them to fix.
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- This is the twentysomething generation, those 48 million
- young Americans ages 18 through 29 who fall between the famous
- baby boomers and the boomlet of children the baby boomers are
- producing. Since today's young adults were born during a period
- when the U.S. birthrate decreased to half the level of its
- postwar peak, in the wake of the great baby boom, they are
- sometimes called the baby busters. By whatever name, so far
- they are an unsung generation, hardly recognized as a social
- force or even noticed much at all. "I envision ourselves as a
- lurking generation, waiting in the shadows, quietly figuring
- out our plan," says Rebecca Winke, 19, of Madison, Wis. "Maybe
- that's why nobody notices us."
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- But here they come: freshly minted grownups. And anyone who
- expected they would echo the boomers who came before, bringing
- more of the same attitude, should brace for a surprise. This
- crowd is profoundly different from -- even contrary to -- the
- group that came of age in the 1960s and that celebrates itself
- each week on The Wonder Years and thirtysomething. By and
- large, the 18-to-29 group scornfully rejects the habits and
- values of the baby boomers, viewing that group as
- self-centered, fickle and impractical.
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- While the baby boomers had a placid childhood in the 1950s,
- which helped inspire them to start their revolution, today's
- twentysomething generation grew up in a time of drugs, divorce
- and economic strain. They virtually reared themselves. TV
- provided the surrogate parenting, and Ronald Reagan starred as
- the real-life Mister Rogers, dispensing reassurance during
- their troubled adolescence. Reagan's message: problems can be
- shelved until later. A prime characteristic of today's young
- adults is their desire to avoid risk, pain and rapid change.
- They feel paralyzed by the social problems they see as their
- inheritance: racial strife, homelessness, AIDS, fractured
- families and federal deficits. "It is almost our role to be
- passive," says Peter Smith, 23, a newspaper reporter in
- Ventura, Calif. "College was a time of mass apathy, with
- pockets of change. Many global events seem out of our control."
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- The twentysomething generation has been neglected because
- it exists in the shadow of the baby boomers, usually defined
- as the 72 million Americans born between 1946 and 1964. Members
- of the tail end of the boom generation, now ages 26 through 29,
- often feel alienated from the larger group, like kid brothers
- and sisters who disdain the paths their siblings chose. The
- boomer group is so huge that it tends to define every era it
- passes through, forcing society to accommodate its moods and
- dimensions. Even relatively small bunches of boomers made
- waves, most notably the 4 million or so young urban
- professionals of the mid-1980s. By contrast, when today's
- 18-to-29-year-old group was born, the baby boom was fading into
- the so-called baby bust, with its precipitous decline in the
- U.S. birthrate. The relatively small baby-bust group is poorly
- understood by everyone from scholars to marketers. But as the
- twentysomething adults begin their prime working years, they
- have suddenly become far more intriguing. Reason: America needs
- them. Today's young adults are so scarce that their numbers
- could result in severe labor shortages in the coming decade.
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- Twentysomething adults feel the opposing tugs of making
- money and doing good works, but they refuse to get caught up
- in the passion of either one. They reject 70-hour workweeks as
- yuppie lunacy, just as they shirk from starting another social
- revolution. Today's young adults want to stay in their own
- backyard and do their work in modest ways. "We're not trying
- to change things. We're trying to fix things," says Anne
- McCord, 21, of Portland, Ore. "We are the generation that is
- going to renovate America. We are going to be its carpenters and
- janitors."
-
- This is a back-to-basics bunch that wishes life could be
- simpler. "We expect less, we want less, but we want less to be
- better," says Devin Schaumburg, 20, of Knoxville. "If we're
- just trying to pick up the pieces, put it all back together,
- is there a label for that?" That's a laudable notion, but don't
- hold your breath till they find their answer. "They are finally
- out there, saying `Pay attention to us,' but I've never heard
- them think of a single thing that defines them," says Martha
- Farnsworth Riche, national editor of American Demographics
- magazine.
-
- What worries parents, teachers and employers is that the
- latest crop of adults wants to postpone growing up. At a time
- when they should be graduating, entering the work force and
- starting families of their own, the twentysomething crowd is
- balking at those rites of passage. A prime reason is their
- recognition that the American Dream is much tougher to achieve
- after years of housing-price inflation and stagnant wages.
- Householders under the age of 25 were the only group during the
- 1980s to suffer a drop in income, a decline of 10%. One result:
- fully 75% of young males 18 to 24 years old are still living
- at home, the largest proportion since the Great Depression.
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- In a TIME/CNN poll of 18- to 29-year-olds, 65% of those
- surveyed agreed it will be harder for their group to live as
- comfortably as previous generations. While the majority of
- today's young adults think they have a strong chance of finding
- a well-paying and interesting job, 69% believe they will have
- more difficulty buying a house, and 52% say they will have less
- leisure time than their predecessors. Asked to describe their
- generation, 53% said the group is worried about the future.
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- Until they come out of their shells, the
- twentysomething/baby-bust generation will be a frustrating
- enigma. Riche calls them the New Petulants because "they can
- often end up sounding like whiners." Their anxious indecision
- creates a kind of ominous fog around them. Yet those who take
- a more sanguine view see in today's young adults a
- sophistication, tolerance and candor that could help repair the
- excesses of rampant individualism. Here is a guide for
- understanding the puzzling twenty something crowd:
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- FAMILY: THE TIES DIDN'T BIND
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- "Ronald Reagan was around longer than some of my friends'
- fathers," says Rachel Stevens, 21, a graduate of the University
- of Michigan. An estimated 40% of people in their 20s are
- children of divorce. Even more were latchkey kids, the first
- to experience the downside of the two-income family. This may
- explain why the only solid commitment they are willing to make
- is to their own children -- someday. The group wants to spend
- more time with their kids, not because they think they can
- handle the balance of work and child rearing any better than
- their parents but because they see themselves as having been
- neglected. "My generation will be the family generation," says
- Mara Brock, 20, of Kansas City. "I don't want my kids to go
- through what my parents put me through."
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- That ordeal was loneliness. "This generation came from a
- culture that really didn't prize having kids anyway," says
- Chicago sociologist Paul Hirsch. "Their parents just wanted to
- go and play out their roles -- they assumed the kids were going
- to grow up all right." Absent parents forced a dependence on
- secondary relationships with teachers and friends. Flashy toys
- and new clothes were supposed to make up for this lack but
- instead sowed the seeds for a later abhorrence of the yuppie
- brand of materialism. "Quality time" didn't cut it for them
- either. In a survey to gauge the baby busters' mood and tastes,
- Chicago's Leo Burnett ad agency discovered that the group had
- a surprising amount of anger and resentment about their absentee
- parents. "The flashback was instantaneous and so hot you could
- feel it," recalls Josh McQueen, Burnett's research director.
- "They were telling us passionately that quality time was
- exactly what was not in their lives."
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- At this point, members of the twenty something generation
- just want to avoid perpetuating the mistakes of their own
- upbringing. Today's potential parents look beyond their own
- mothers and fathers when searching for child-rearing role
- models. Says Kip Banks, 24, a graduate student in public policy
- at the University of Michigan: "When I raise my children, my
- approach will be my grandparents', much more serious and
- conservative. I would never give my children the freedoms I
- had."
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- MARRIAGE: WHAT'S THE RUSH?
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- The generation is afraid of relationships in general, and
- they are the ultimate skeptics when it comes to marriage. Some
- young adults maintain they will wait to get married, in the
- hope that time will bring a more compatible mate and the
- maturity to avoid a divorce. But few of them have any real
- blueprint for how a successful relationship should function.
- "We never saw commitment at work," says Robert Higgins, 26, a
- graduate student in music at Ohio's University of Akron.
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- As a result, twentysomething people are staying single
- longer and often living together before marrying. Studying the
- 20-to-24 age group in 1988, the U.S. Census Bureau found that
- 77% of men and 61% of women had never married, up sharply from
- 55% and 36%, respectively, in 1970. Among those 25 to 29, the
- unmarrieds included 43% of men and 29% of women in 1988, vs.
- 19% and 10% in 1970. The sheer disposability of marriage breeds
- skepticism. Kasey Geoghegan, 20, a student at the University
- of Denver and a child of divorced parents, believes nuptial
- vows have lost their credibility. Says she: "When people get
- married, ideally it's permanent, but once problems set in, they
- don't bother to work things out."
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- DATING: DON'T STAND SO CLOSE
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- Finding a date on a Saturday night, let alone a mate, is a
- challenge for a generation that has elevated casual commitment
- to an art form. Despite their nostalgia for family values, few
- in their 20s are eager to revive a 1950s mentality about
- pairing off. Rick Bruno, 22, who will enter Yale Medical School
- in the fall, would rather think of himself as a free agent.
- Says he: "Not getting hurt is a big priority with me." Others
- are concerned that the generation is too detached to form
- caring relationships. "People are afraid to like each other,"
- says Leslie Boorstein, 21, a photographer from Great Neck,
- N.Y.
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- For those who try to make meaningful connections -- often
- through video dating services, party lines and personals ads
- -- the risks of modern love are greater than ever. AIDS casts
- a pall over a generation that fully expected to reap the
- benefits of the sexual revolution. Responsibility is the
- watchword. Only on college campuses do remnants of libertinism
- linger. That worries public-health officials, who are
- witnessing an explosion of sexually transmitted diseases,
- particularly genital warts. "There is a high degree of students
- who believe oral contraception protects them from the AIDS
- virus. It doesn't," says Wally Brewer, coordinator of a study
- of HIV infection on U.S. campuses. "Obviously it's a big
- educational challenge."
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- CAREERS: NOT JUST YET, THANKS
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- Because they are fewer in number, today's young adults have
- the power to wreak havoc in the workplace. Companies are
- discovering that to win the best talent, they must cater to a
- young work force that is considered overly sensitive at best
- and lazy at worst. During the next several years, employers
- will have to double their recruiting efforts. According to
- American Demographics, the pool of entry-level workers 16 to
- 24 will shrink about 500,000 a year through 1995, to 21
- million. These youngsters are starting to use their bargaining
- power to get more of what they feel is coming to them. They
- want flexibility, access to decision making and a return to the
- sacredness of work-free weekends. "I want a work environment
- concerned about my personal growth," says Jennifer Peters, 22,
- one of the youngest candidates ever to be admitted to the State
- Bar of California. "I don't want to go to work and feel I'll
- be burned out two or three years down the road."
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- Most of all, young people want constant feedback from
- supervisors. In contrast with the baby boomers, who disdained
- evaluations as somehow undemocratic, people in their 20s crave
- grades, performance evaluations and reviews. They want a
- quantification of their achievement. After all, these were the
- children who prepped diligently for college-aptitude exams and
- learned how to master Rubik's Cube and Space Invaders. They are
- consummate game players and grade grubbers. "Unlike yuppies,
- younger people are not driven from within, they need
- reinforcement," says Penny Erikson, 40, a senior vice president
- at the Young & Rubicam ad agency, which has hired many recent
- college graduates. "They prefer short-term tasks with
- observable results."
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- Money is still important as an indicator of career
- performance, but crass materialism is on the wane. Marian
- Salzman, 31, an editor at large for the collegiate magazine CV,
- believes the shift away from the big-salary, big-city role
- model of the early '80s is an accommodation to the reality of
- a depressed Wall Street and slack economy. Many boomers
- expected to have made millions by the time they reached 30.
- "But for today's graduates, the easy roads to fast money have
- dried up," says Salzman.
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- Climbing the corporate ladder is trickier than ever at a
- time of widespread corporate restructuring. When recruiters
- talk about long-term job security, young adults know better.
- Says Victoria Ball, 41, director of Career Planning Services
- at Brown University: "Even IBM, which always said it would
- never lay off -- well, now they're doing it too." Between 1987
- and the end of this year, Big Blue will have shed about 23,000
- workers through voluntary incentive programs.
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- Most of all, young workers want job gratification. Teaching,
- long disdained as an underpaid and underappreciated profession,
- is a hot prospect. Enrollment in U.S. teaching programs
- increased 61% from 1985 to 1989. And more graduates are
- expressing interest in public-service careers. "The glory days
- of Wall Street represented an extreme," says Janet Abrams, 29,
- a Senate aide who regularly interviews young people looking for
- jobs on Capitol Hill. "Now I'm hearing about kids going to the
- National Park Service."
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- Welcome to the era of hedged bets and lowered expectations.
- Young people increasingly claim they are willing to leave
- careers in middle gear, without making that final climb to the
- top. The leitmotiv of the new age: second place seems just
- fine. But young adults are flighty if they find their workplace
- harsh or inflexible. "The difference between now and then was
- that we had a higher threshold for unhappiness," says editor
- Salzman. "I always expected that a job would be 80% misery and
- 20% glory, but this generation refuses to pay its dues."
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- EDUCATION: NO DEGREE, NO DOLLARS
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- Smart and savvy, the twenty something group is the
- best-educated generation in U.S. history. A record 59% of 1988
- high school graduates enrolled in college, compared with 49%
- in the previous decade. The lesson they have taken to heart:
- education is a means to an end, the ticket to a cherished
- middle-class life-style. "The saddest thing of all is that they
- don't have the quest to understand things, to understand
- themselves," says Alexander Astin, whose UCLA-based Higher
- Education Research Institute has been measuring changing
- attitudes among college freshman for 24 years.
-
- Yet, a fact of life in the 1990s economy is that a college
- degree is mostly about survival. A person under 30 with a
- college degree will earn four times as much money as someone
- without it. In 1973 the difference was only twice as great.
- With the loss of well-paying factory jobs, there are fewer
- chances for less-educated young people to reach the middle
- class. Many dropouts quickly learn this and decide to return
- to school. But that decision costs money and sends many
- twentysomethings back to the nest. Others are flocking to the
- armed services. Private First Class Dorin Vanderjack, 20, of
- Redding, Calif., left his catering job at a Holiday Inn to join
- the Army. After two years of racking up credits at the local
- community college, he was ready for a four-year school and
- found the Army's offer of $22,800 in tuition assistance too
- tempting to turn down. "There's no possible way I could save
- that," he says. "This forced me to grow up."
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- WANDERLUST: LET'S GET LOST
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- While the recruiters are trying to woo young workers, a
- generation is out planning its escape from the 9-to-5 routine.
- Travel is always an easy way out, one that comes cloaked in a
- mantle of respectability: cultural enrichment. In the TIME/CNN
- poll, 60% of the people surveyed said they plan to travel a lot
- while they are young. And it's not just rich students who are
- doing it. "Travel is an obsession for everyone," says Cheryl
- Wilson, 21, a University of Pennsylvania graduate who has
- visited Denmark and Hungary. "The idea of going away, being
- mobile, is very romantic. It fulfills our sense of adventure."
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- Unlike previous generations of upper-crust Americans who
- savored a postgraduate European tour as the ultimate finishing
- school, today's adventurers are picking places far more exotic.
- They are seeking an escape from Western culture, rather than
- further refinement to smooth their entry into society.
- Katmandu, Dar es Salaam, Bangkok: these are the trendy
- destinations of many young daydreamers. Susan Costello, 23, a
- recent Harvard graduate, voyaged to Dharmsala, India, to spend
- time at the headquarters of the Tibetan government-in-exile,
- headed by the Dalai Lama. Costello decided to explore Tibetan
- culture "to see if they really had something in their way of
- life that we seem to be missing in the West."
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- ACTIVISM: ART OF THE POSSIBLE
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- People in their 20s want to give something back to society,
- but they don't know how to begin. The really important
- problems, ranging from the national debt to homelessness, are
- too large and complex to comprehend. And always the great,
- intimidating shadow of 1960s-style activism hovers in the
- background. Twentysomething youths suspect that today's
- attempts at political and social action pale in comparison with
- the excitement of draft dodging or freedom riding.
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- The new generation pines for a romanticized past when the
- issues were clear and the troops were committed. "The kids of
- the 1960s had it easy," claims Gavin Orzame, 18, of Berrien
- Springs, Mich. "Back then they had a war and the civil rights
- movement. Now there are so many issues that it's hard to get
- one big rallying point." But because the '60s utopia never
- came, today's young adults view the era with a combination of
- reverie and revulsion. "What was so great about growing up then
- anyway?" says future physician Bruno. "The generation that had
- Vietnam and Watergate is going to be known for leaving us all
- their problems. They came out of Camelot and blew it."
-
- Such views are revisionist, since the '60s were not easy,
- and the revolution did not end in utter failure. The twenty
- something generation takes for granted many of the real goals
- of the '60s: civil rights, the antiwar movement, feminism and
- gay liberation. But those movements never coalesced into a
- unified crusade, which is something the twentysomethings hope
- will come along, break their lethargy and goad them into action.
- One major cause is the planet; 43% of the young adults in the
- TIME/CNN poll said they are "environmentally conscious." At the
- same time, some young people are joining the ranks of
- radical-action groups, including ACT UP, the AIDS Coalition to
- Unleash Power, and Trans-Species Unlimited, the animal-rights
- group. These organizations have appeal because they focus their
- message, choose specific targets and use high-stakes pressure
- tactics like civil disobedience to get things accomplished
- quickly.
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- For a generation that has witnessed so much failure in the
- political system, such results-oriented activism seems much
- more valid and practical. Says Sean McNally, 20, who headed the
- Earth Day activities at Northwestern University: "A lot of us
- are afraid to take an intense stance and then leave it all
- behind like our parents did. We have to protect ourselves from
- burning out, from losing faith." Like McNally, the rest of the
- generation is doing what it can. Its members prefer activities
- that are small in scope: cleaning up a park over a weekend or
- teaching literacy to underprivileged children.
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- LEADERS: HEROES ARE HARD TO FIND
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- Young adults need role models and leaders, but the
- twentysomething generation has almost no one to look up to.
- While 58% of those in the TIME/CNN survey said their group has
- heroes, they failed to agree on any. Ronald Reagan was most
- often named, with only 8% of the vote, followed by Mikhail
- Gorbachev (7%), Jesse Jackson (6%) and George Bush (5%).
- Today's young generation finds no figures in the present who
- compare with such '60s-era heroes as John F. Kennedy and Martin
- Luther King. "It seems there were all these great people in
- the '60s," says Kasi Davidson, 18, of Cody, Wyo. "Now there is
- nobody."
-
- Today's potential leaders seem unable to maintain their
- stature. They have a way of either self-destructing or being
- decimated in the press, which trumpets their faults and
- foibles. "The media don't really give young people role models
- anymore," says Christina Chinn, 21, of Denver. "Now you get
- role models like Donald Trump and all of the moneymakers -- no
- one with real ideals."
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- SHOPPING: LESS PASSION FOR PRESTIGE
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- Marketers are confounded as they try to reach a generation
- so rootless and noncommittal. But ad agencies that have
- explored the values of the twentysomething generation have
- found that status symbols, from Cuisinarts to BMWs, actually
- carry a social stigma among many young adults. Their emphasis,
- according to Dan Fox, marketing planner at Foote, Cone &
- Belding, will be on affordable quality. Unlike baby boomers,
- who buy 50% of their cars from Japanese makers, the twentysome
- thing generation is too young to remember Detroit's clunkers
- of the 1970s. Today's young adult is likely to aspire to a Jeep
- Cherokee or Chevy Lumina with lots of cup holders. "Don't knock
- the cup holders," warns Fox. "There's something about them that
- says, `It's all right in my world.' That's not a small notion.
- And Mercedes doesn't have them."
-
- The twentysomething attitude toward consumption in general:
- get more for less. While yuppies spent money to acquire the
- best and the rarest toys, young adults believe they can live
- just as well, and maybe even better, without breaking the bank.
- They disdain designer anything. "Just point me to the generic
- aisle," says Jill Mackie, 21, a journalism major at the
- University of Illinois. Such a no-nonsense outlook has made hay
- for stores like the Gap, which thrives on young people's desire
- for casual clothing at a casual price. Similarly, a
- twentysomething adult picks a Hershey's bar over Godiva
- chocolates, and Bass Weejuns (price: $75) instead of Lucchese
- cowboy boots ($500).
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- CULTURE: FEW FLAVORS OF THEIR OWN
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- Down deep, what frustrates today's young people -- and those
- who observe them -- is their failure to create an original
- youth culture. The 1920s had jazz and the Lost Generation, the
- 1950s created the Beats, the 1960s brought everything embodied
- in the Summer of Love. But the twentysomething generation has
- yet to make a substantial cultural statement. People in their
- 20s have been handed down everyone else's music, clothes and
- styles, leaving little room for their own imaginations.
- Mini-revivals in platform shoes, ripped jeans and urban-cowboy
- chic all coincide with J. Crew prep, Gumby haircuts and
- teased-out suburban perms. What young adults have managed to
- come up with is either nuevo hipster or ultra-nerd, but almost
- always a bland imitation of the past. "They don't even seem to
- know how to dress," says sociologist Hirsch, "and they're
- almost unschooled in how to look in different settings."
-
- Many critics dismiss the new generation as culture vultures.
- But there is another way of looking at them: as open-minded
- samplers of an increasingly diverse cultural buffet. Rap music
- has fueled a fresh array of clothing styles and political
- attitudes, not to mention musical innovations. A new, hot radio
- format has evolved to provide exposure for such urban
- dance-music acts as Soul II Soul and Lisa Stansfield. On
- television, MTV has grown from an exclusively rock-'n'-roll
- outlet to one that encompasses pop, soul, reggae and even
- disco. Like Madonna in her hit song Vogue, this generation knows
- how to "strike a pose." Eclecticism is supreme, as long as the
- show is authentic -- as camp, art or theater.
-
- The music of the '60s and '70s is still viewed, sometimes
- resentfully, as classic. So today's artists are busy trying to
- gain acceptance by reworking the past. Edie Brickell and the
- New Bohemians redo Dylan; 10,000 Maniacs covers Cat Stevens.
- Why hasn't the twentysomething generation picked up the
- creative gauntlet? One reason is that the generation believes
- the artistic climate that existed when the Beatles and the Who
- were writing is no longer viable. Art, they feel, is not
- created for the sake of a statement these days. It's written
- for money.
-
- Even many of the fiction writers who emerged in the late
- 1980s -- Bret Easton Ellis, Tama Janowitz, Jay McInerney, to
- name the usual suspects -- seemed to be in it for the money and
- fame. That makes today's young adults pessimistic that
- originals like Tom Robbins or Timothy Leary or the Rolling
- Stones will come along in their time. But then even the Stones
- are not really the Stones these days. "Kids aren't stupid,"
- says Mike O'Connell, 23, of Chicago, lead singer of his own
- band, Rights of the Accused. "The Stones aren't playing rock
- 'n' roll anymore. They're playing for Budweiser."
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- Maybe the twentysomething generation does have trouble
- making a decision or a statement. Maybe they are just a little
- too cynical when it comes to the world. But their realism may
- help them keep shuffling along with their good intentions, no
- matter what life throws at them. That resignation leaves them
- no illusions to shatter, no false expectations to deflate. In
- the long run, even with their fits and starts, they may
- accomplish more of their goals than past generations did. "No
- one is going to say we are anything but slow and steady, but
- how else are we going to go?" asks Ann Evangelista, 21, of West
- Chester, Pa. "I could walk this slow and steady way, and maybe
- I'll end up winning the race." For this crowd, Camelot may be
- a place in the future, not just a nostalgia trip to the past.
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